Nigerian comedian and skitmaker Abdulgafar Ahmad, popularly known as TheCuteAbiola, has once again sparked widespread discussion on social media following the release of a controversial skit highlighting the struggles of a financially dependent husband in an abusive marriage.
Posted on his official Facebook page, the video tells the story of a man who is repeatedly assaulted by his wife due to his inability to provide financially. Despite the abuse, he continues to return to her because he has no other means of feeding or supporting himself.
The comedian accompanied the video with a striking caption:
“She beats her husband time to time because he is poor, but because the husband has no other feeding options, he goes back to her.”
The skit, though dramatized for entertainment, touches on a rarely discussed issue in Nigerian society domestic violence against men and the harsh reality of financial dependency in relationships.
Social media reactions were swift and divided. While some viewers praised the skit for shedding light on male vulnerability and the emotional toll of economic hardship, others criticized the content for making light of domestic violence, a deeply serious and sensitive topic.
Gender rights advocates noted that the video opens up an important conversation about the less visible forms of abuse in relationships and the societal expectations placed on men as providers. They stressed the need for support systems that protect all victims of domestic violence, regardless of gender.
TheCuteAbiola, known for using comedy to reflect real societal issues, has not yet issued a follow-up statement, but his skit continues to trend, sparking debates around gender roles, economic pressures, and emotional abuse.
As Nigeria continues to grapple with conversations around mental health, abuse, and poverty, this latest video serves as a reminder of the complex realities many individuals face behind closed doors often masked by silence and shame.
